10/9/2018 0 Comments Sumner MondaySchool, College & Coaching for Team Malik today 🙄
But in truth I'm feeling guilty living without Sumner 😢 & sooo empty inside 😔 A few pics from this time last year 🙄 & we have to carry on without Sumner 💔 & wonder what if the treatment was given sooner once progression was found 🤕 After school squash training at K2 🎾 & Scott Williams had a Pic for us drawn by Jen Taylor 😍 soo cool 😜 then home for dinner except Curtis & Perry coz they were taking the Monday Club Night Coaching Session 🎾 Talking Squash Lewis Anderson dedicated his Welsh Junior Squash 🎾Open u19s win to Sumner Malik ☀️ 💪 Well played Lewis 💪💕 Sue picked up a couple of potted cuttings of Red Hot Poker ☀️ for Sumners Memorial Garden from Mandy Hollingsworth 😍 fanx & just after dinner Catherine Snashall came over to drop off a card & garden centre gift vouchers 🌻 from herself Julie Ogg & Judith Trappet 💖 sooo kind ladies thank you 😍☀️ SILLY Question 🙄 Everyone/Anyone Sumner ☀️ passed away aged 12 😢 soo young 💔 So we live on to how ever old say 70 80 ?? When as many faiths believe that we will see each other again 💖 right ? So when & if we do ☀️ How old will Sumner Be ? 🙄 to us ? 🤔 & us to him ? 😔 If & when we do see him again 💕 Sleep tight everyone 😴😴😴 Night night x 💔 x #sunshine4sumner #sumnerjourney
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9/9/2018 0 Comments Sumner Sundaywow all got & needed a sleep in this morning 😔
1st Sussex County Squad this afternoon for Torrie & Bay-Hesty 👊 they wanted to wear their Sunshine4Sumner shirts ☀️ Curtis & Perry rest day & also came to Hove to see a friend 😜 Sue & I popped into to see Paul Day & Monica Day for a coffee & some fizz 🥂 it was really great to catch up with them 💕 & talk about Sumner & our journey 🙄 it was great to see Amy, Reece & Crystal as well 💖 Then it was time to collect from Squash Squad 🙄 they seemed to enjoy squad but we're missing having Sumner with them 😢💔 We decided to go to Bombay Aloo 🇮🇳 & have their Vegan Buffet 🤗this is the first time since losing Sumner 😢 kids ate well but Sue & I 😔didn't really feel too great 😢 lit a candle for Sumner at our table for 8 💕 Last time Sumner found the Naked Cyclist a real laugh 😜 & as we came out of Bombay Aloo tonight the Hare Krishna Band dressed in Orange came down the road singing Hare Hare Krishna 🇮🇳🔆 Sumner would have found this entertaining too ☀️🌻 Got home & watched a family film called The Lodgers 🙄 then bed coz School, College & Coaching starts back for Team Malik 💖 early to bed 😴 8/9/2018 0 Comments Sumner SaturdayBay-Hesty got a sleep in 😜 but not Curtis, Perry & Torrie 🙄 coz all had matches this morning 🎾👊
All 3 played with Curtis & Torrie won good 👊 results & Perry lost to the 3-4 seed 🙄 meanwhile Sue met up with Aiden & Cheryl Gooden & popped into town for lunch 💕 looks like they had fun 🤗☀️ Curtis in semi finals 👊 unfortunately lost 1-3 to no2 seed 😔 Torrie & Perry won their final matches 👊☀️& then Curtis won his last match to take 3rd place 3-0 🥉 Torrie 5th & Perry 7th 💪 During all the above Diane Eagle & her Nunn Rowing Crew 🚣♀️ did the 21.6 miles 🚣♀️ fanx Diane & Crew 💕🚣♀️😍🚣♀️💖 Aunty Yasmin Malik & Aunty Tracy Evans E-d were coming for dinner today & so did Jackie & John Stephens 💕 cheers 😜 & Fanx to all of you for looking after Sue & Bay-Hesty 😔 coz we were away in Rotterdam 🇳🇱 A good weekend except this is now 4 weeks since we lost our dear Sumner 😢💔 & it's still soo hard to believe that he's gone 😔 ☀️💔 We love & miss you sooo much SUMNER ☀️💖 Not going to get in much before 1am 🙄 so hopefully we will all try to sleep in tomoz 😴💕 Another DIPG 🤕 warrior called Gavin 😢 has gone 😔💔 fanx for all your likes, comments & messages of support to us 💖 7/9/2018 0 Comments Sumner Friday ☀️Up early 5am for Squash Curtis, Perry & Torrie 👊 thanks to Clifford Rammafor a speedy restring 🎾👊
Riverford Organic Delivery came as clockwork ☀️ Thanks Suzanne Evans Maglente for Sues lunch 💕 date ☀️ Thanks Jackie & John Stephens for making dinner for Sue & Bay-Hesty 💕 ☀️ & John even came home early from Shooting to see them 💕 he never ever does that 😛 Squash 🎾 went well in Rotterdam 🇳🇱 with Curtis, Perry & Torrie all playing in top 8 of their first Team Malik Closed Satelite Pro Squash Event 👊 even got bright yellow Sunshine ☀️ Sumner hand towels ☀️ with our names on ☀️ Last Call to Sponsor Diane Eagle on her Marathon 21.6 mile row 🚣♀️ from London Docklands to Ham 🚣♀️ see link below 🙄 https://www.justgiving.com/crowdfunding/diane-eagle… Another DIPG 🤕 warrior called Gavin 😢 has gone 😔💔 fanx for all your likes, comments & messages of support to us 💖 6/9/2018 0 Comments Sumner ThursdayHey all we know that Sumner has gone 😢💔
But for me to text his name down on here 🙄 kinda makes me feel.............. 💕 that he's still ☀️🙄💕 Sue feels as though she has lost him & that we need to go out to find him 😢💔 All of us are much quieter & certainly not as happy 😔 John Stephens over prompt as usual to crack on with Sumners memorial garden 🌻 Others to school 🙄 with Curtis & Perry grabbing a well earned slept in 😴 I took our guest Lea Murrizi the German 🇩🇪 girls u15s no1 for pressure session at K2 👊 this went well & she was defo tired by the end of the session 🎾💪 it's 🇩🇪 been a real pleasure helping this young lady 💕even under out own 😔 difficult family situation just now 💔 After school Sumners Thursday Squash 🎾 squad went ahead & I can't deny it 😔 this was difficult 🙄 without his presence 💔 All home for dinner 🍕 pizza & salad & a enjoyed the vegan pizzas 🍕 🇮🇹 Curtis, Perry, Torrie & Lea all got packed ready to play in the Rotterdam Open & Lea to return home 🇩🇪 Such sad news today to hear that another DIPG 🤕 warrior called Cameron 😔 gas lost his battle with DIPG 💔 So close to us losing Sumner 😢 & this family really tried to help us with Sumner over the last year or so 💕 sending love to you all 💖 Cassandra Finnegan & Hammy Truesdale 😢💔 Heston cried lots tonight at bedtime 😢 really missing Sumner 💔 too 😢 Fanx to those that have sponsored Diane Eagle for this Saturdays 21.6 row 🚣♀️ from Docklands to Ham 🚣♀️ there's still time to donate to Diane to help Sumners Legacy & Celerbration of life ☀️ see link below 🙄 We got a lovely gift in the post today 💕 a yellow hand made quote hung in rope ☀️ but it was sent 🙄😔💕 anonymously 😜 so please if you sent this 💖 thank you & own up 💖 5/9/2018 0 Comments Sumner WednesdaySO Today Sumner would have been exactly 2 years Post Diognosis 🤕 see pic of me with Sumner in the Ambulance 😔 & starting Year 8 at secondary school as Triple Trouble 😢
(even got Sumners School uniform out 🙄 just in case) 💔 & his sister Torrie starting year 10 🙄 & my mum's birthday 😢 But it was not to be 😔 we really do feel that the system did not ReRadiate Sumner 🤕 soon enough once progression was confirmed 😔 in fact the earliest they would carry out Reradiation was 26 days later 💔 We need answers 🙄 so if any of you know why or what potentially happened please pm us ☀️ up until this Sumner was in great shape & battling well against 🤕 DIPG 👊 Talking of battles our children are certainly struggling to come to terms with the loss of Sumner 😢💔 Starting back at school was not going to be easy 😔 luckily our children's school is & always have been very supportive in many ways 💖 thank you all involved 💕 Fanx everyone that took the time to consider our feelings today especially with the countries children starting back to school 🙄 Unfortunately kids get Cancer 🤕 too 😔 & don't go back 😢💔 Curtis, Perry & Lea went training at K2 this morning 👊 Mark thankfully serviced our car 👊 Please please try to sponsor Diane Eagle for this 🚣♀️ Saturday 8th coz she is rowing 🚣♀️ 21.6 from Docklands to Ham 🚣♀️ to help raise funds for Sumners Celerbration of life 🌻 service & legacy ☀️ see link below 🙄 https://www.justgiving.com/crowdfunding/diane-eagle… School seemed to go ok 💕 but in truth we will never really know just how Bay-Hesty & Torrie really felt 😔 We do know that 😔 we all miss Sumner soo much 💔 Lots of what ifs ? To myself today 😔 even saw my GP this morning 🙄 Team Malik all went squash training at K2 as the new Squash Season starts very soon 👊 it's going to be tough 😔 but getting write ups like the one from Purley Squash Club via Stuart Parish can help a little 💕 see pics 🙄 & of course all your comments & messages of support for us all 💖 Fanx to Julie Doherty for running a quiz night & raising some more money & awareness for Sumner ☀️ 4/9/2018 0 Comments Sumner TuesdayUp early for training 🎾 except 🙄 Bay-Hesty coz it was their last sleep in before starting back to 🌻 Secondary school tomoz 😔 Today the head rang to see if there was anything they could do to help ease Torrie & Bay-Hesty back to school 😔 without Sumner 😢💔
John Stephens was here early to dig over Sumners ☀️ memorial garden 🌻 & John found a heart 💖 shape whilst digging ☀️ We need to find a way or an idea to decorativly retain the grass bank 🙄Any ideas ??? Sumners Facebook family 💕 pleeeaaassse 💕 Lunch at home & then second squash squad of the day 👊 & I had to collect a few parts for the car service 🙄 Training went well today & we think that Lea Murrizi is enjoying her training with Team Malik 😜 Found a few pics of this time last year when Sumner was a bit upset 😢 Fanx Michelle Pettet & family for making us a 🌻 Sunflower 🌻 Dream Catcher 💕 & to Pat at K2 for Sues flowers 💖 Home for dinner then got stuff ready to start back at school 🙄 Bay-Hesty not feeling too great 😢 & sleeping in their own beds tonight 🙄coz Sumners School uniform is ready laid out on his bed for tomoz 💔 & this is a really tough times for us all 😔💔 SORRY 😢 Sleep safe everyone 😴😴😴 3/9/2018 0 Comments Sumner MondayAll up early for fitness training & to collect the German u15s no1 Lea Murrizi from the Station with her mum Enkeleida Brügmann & her 💞cousin Nikol 😍
So straight to K2 for the first 2 hour session of the day 👊 Sue took Leida & Nikol shopping for lunch & then Leida cooked Aubergines in a Albanian sauce for lunch 🙄 soo tasty 💞 All rested after lunch & Sue showed Leida 🙄 Sumners memorial garden 🌻 to be ☀️ We got back to K2 a bit early to clean the courts & then start the second session 🎾 all trained hard today 👊 & it was great for Torrie to have Lea to train with 😍 Jackie & John Stephens popped into see if She was ok 😍 & then ended up staying for dinner with Team Malik 💖 with our new overseas guest Lea 🤗 After dinner kids watched a bit of tv & we chatted about Sumners Memorial Garden 🌻 still plenty to do 🙄 but totally worthwhile 💕 quite a few people came up to me at K2 today 😢 offering their condolences 💔at our sad loss of Sumner 😢 21 DIPG 🤕warriors have gone during August 😢💔 that we know of 💔😢 Sue & I are still hurting too much 💔 2/9/2018 0 Comments Sumner Sunday ☀️All of us slept in this morning 🙄 no squash just a rest day with a family reflection day 🌻
After lunch decided to go to watch the Incredibles 2 👊 all made possible by a kind donation from Emma Bennett 💕 fanx xx As we arrived at Crawley Leisure Park we bumped into Sami Shelfordcoming out if the cinema 🙄 was niceto see her with her family 💕 This was our first proper trip out 😢 without Sumner 💔 even though we are 7 🙄 we were all alot quieter & sadder than we would have been if Sumner were here ☀️ The film was great & Sumner would have loved it too 💖 The second part of our family trip out was that Derek & Julie Smith had offered to take us all out for dinner 💕 this Sunday 🙄 so booked into Bella Italia 🇮🇹 for 6pm table for 10 🌻 we even took a little candle in with us ☀️ Sumner will have loved this kind of family day 💖 Jeeezzz we miss him sooo much 😢💔😢 Another DIPG 🤕 warrior princess called Saniyah 😢 has gone 💔 Thank you to Jon Lee Proctor for cropping down 😔 funeral speeches of Curtis, Perry, Torrie & Leonie from Sumners Funeral ☀️ Sumner was always helping his mum & all of us in his own little way 💕 Sumners Index Finger Print ☝️ necklace was collected this time last year 💖 how quickly this time has gone 😔 & now he's gone 💔 😢 We know that you all think that we are meant to be strong 👊 but unless you have ever experienced this type of battle 😢 & to then lose someone soo precious as a child 💔 it is truly unbearable & the feeling of total loss in many ways inside is...................... 💔😢 Fanx everyone for all your likes, messages of support & treats for us today 😍 including from Julie some bulbs & plant for Sumners ☀️memorial garden 🌻 Bay-Hesty always seem to sit this close now since the loss of their triplet brother 😢 Sumner 💔 1/9/2018 0 Comments Sumner Saturday ☀️Couldn't get up this morning 😔 kids went training twice today & Phil came over to fit a second hand fuel pump to the family car 🙄 took a while though but many thanks for your help 💕
First 6 pics are this time last year when Sumner came home from his 8th CED Infusion 🤕 Looking at the pics you can really see how much Sumner meant to us all as a family 💕 & we to him 💔 Had dinner just the 7 of us 😔 & watched a couple of family films 🙄 gonna take some getting used to 😢 Not much else to say except thank everyone for your messages & pics 💕 & looks as though Kaie Warren is sending a little parcel over to us 💖 with a big smile from Auggie 💕 Another DIPG 🤕 warrior called Ronil has gone 😢 & today is the first day of Childhood Cancer Awareness month 👊☀️😢 Sumner fought soo well & didn't deserve to lose his battle at this stage 😢 |
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